Tour group traveling.  For some, it conjures up images of camaraderie, sociability, and the chance to leave the planning and execution to someone else.  Others shudder at the thought, and objections can range from being stuck with people who rub you the wrong way to forced socializing to being shackled to an itinerary that doesn’t allow for spontaneity.

I haven’t gravitated toward group travel for two reasons: I’m an introvert and I love to do my own travel planning.  But when it came to our first trip to a non-Western part of the world, we felt it might add the safety net we were looking for.  Finding a reputable company that incorporates physical activities into the itinerary was the icing on the cake.  While the trip did have a few drawbacks, we have no regrets.  It was the right trip for us.  The question is – is it right for you?

REI trip description
From the R.E.I. website a while back.  I do believe the price has gone up a tad.


My Dream Boutique Resort, Luang Prabang.  Beautiful rooms, friendly staff, two swimming pools, and only a short walk from the seasonal bamboo bridge that leads into the old town.

We actually stayed in three different rooms at this resort, but I forgot to photograph one of them.  We were rather under the weather, you see, when we checked into our third room on our return from Nong Khiaw.  Fortunately, it was as nice as the other two.

Laos My Dream Boutique (11)
View of the main pool and the restaurant, with rooms above.
Laos My Dream Boutique (2)
First room
Laos My Dream Boutique (9)
Second room – the one R.E.I. had booked for us.
Laos My Dream Boutique (3)
The pool outside our second room.
Laos My Dream Boutique
The main pool from the restaurant.
Laos My Dream Boutique (4)

Nong Kiau Riverside Resort in Nong Khiaw, with its location along the river offering stunning views.

Laos Nong Khiaw (65)
Ours was the last cabin on the left.
Laos Nong Khiaw (13)
Entrance to the riverside property.
Laos Nong Khiaw (17)
Laos Nong Khiaw (22)
Malaria-resistant bed
Laos Nong Khiaw (18)
Laos Nong Khiaw (19)
Laos Nong Khiaw (20)
Not too shabby
Laos Nong Khiaw (23)
Beats where I live

Borei Angkor Resort & Spa, Siem Reap, where we stayed in two separate rooms that were more or less identical.

Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa (4)
Elaborate lobby.  Not a mom & pop flop house, it’s owned by one of Cambodia’s regional governors.  How do you say “hoity toity” in Khmer?, I wonder.
Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa
More lobby
Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa (1)
First room, but it looked identical to our second room.
Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa (2)
The view was somewhat lacking in our first room.
Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa (3)
Spacious bathroom
Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa (6)
One of the best pools in SE Asia, according to something I read.
Cambodia Borei Angkor Resort & Spa (4)
The balcony from our second room.
Cambodia Borei Resort & Spa (7)
The view from the outdoor dining area.
Cambodia Borei Angkor Resort & Spa (1)
One of many stations at the international breakfast buffet.  Vegas has got nothin’ on this place.

*According to R.E.I.’s website, these three places are the ones they most often book for this trip, though sometimes circumstances necessitate that they use other accommodations.

Quick facts

Days: The trip itself is 12 days, though days 1 and 12 are really just half days.  Also, add two extra days to get there (from the US anyway), one extra day to get back, and plan on a protracted period of wicked jet lag when you return.  We went a step further and gave ourselves three days to get there.  We wanted a buffer day in case we had flight delays, but the travel gods smiled on us and we got our hoped-for spare day on the front end of the trip to recover, adjust to the time zone, and see Luang Prabang.

Travel season: At the time of this writing, the R.E.I. website doesn’t give tour dates since most of their trips are canceled due to coronavirus.  I can tell you, however, that this trip is offered only in November, December, January, and February.  This is the dry season, and it was also wonderfully mosquito-free.  Engaging in the physical activities during the rainy season would have been a nightmare.  I second R.E.I.’s decision to run this trip in the dry season only.

Group size: This can range from 4-14 people (not including guides) but our trip had only six.  According to our guide, the trips that run over Christmas tend to have lower numbers.  He expected the January and February trips to have closer to the max, and he confirmed my suspicions that those fuller trips have a different feel, saying everything moves much more slowly and that people tend to divide off into groups.

Related post: “Missing” Christmas to Travel

Cambodia Angkor Ta Prohm jungle temple (27)
Our sextet at Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia

Sports/Activities: Perhaps not surprisingly, when R.E.I. bills one of its trips as “multisport,” it means there are at least two and sometimes three sports or physical activities around which the trip centers.  In our case, hiking, cycling, and kayaking were the featured activities.  Cycling was the star of the show, hiking played a supporting role, and kayaking had only a cameo.  Of the ten full days of the trip, this was the breakdown of scheduled physical activity:

  • Day 1 – cycling
  • Day 2 – cycling
  • Day 3 – cycling
  • Day 4 – hiking
  • Day 5 – kayaking
  • Day 6 (depart Laos/arrive Cambodia)
  • Day 7 – cycling
  • Day 8 – cycling
  • Day 9 – hiking
  • Day 10 – minimal hiking (boating on Lake Tonlé Sap)

For you avid cyclists out there, you should know that all cycling was done on mountain bikes, even though we were road biking.  If you’re used to cycling on a lightweight carbon road bike, as I am, this may take some getting used to, especially in hilly areas.

Hiking enthusiasts, you should know that the hiking was quite a bit tamer than I was expecting in terms of physical exertion and level of difficulty, given the kind of activities I generally associate with R.E.I., but it was enjoyable just the same.

Guides: This trip has a main guide and, once you arrive in Cambodia, a secondary guide who kind of becomes the main guide while the original main guide takes something of a back seat, at least when you’re out touring.  Our main guide was Choy, who is Laotian, and our secondary guide was Bun, who is Cambodian.  If Bun was very good, Choy was absolutely fantastic.  We all fell in love with him.  There is no guarantee as to which guides you will get on your trip, but if they’re anything like Choy, you will have an amazing experience.

Cultural and historical sites and experiences: Temples; museums; games of pétanque; a former communist cave-hideout; religious ceremonies; remote villages; sacred hills, mountains, and caves; a bear sanctuary; a whiskey-maker; waterfalls; cultural dances; paper and bamboo handicrafts—this trip had it all.  Despite what I’m about to say about longing for free time (see “cons,” below), I would have regretted missing any of these.

Laos Whiskey Village
Lao whiskey (with real cobra flavoring)

Food: Most days, all three meals are provided on the trip, and the food always fell somewhere along the “delicious to utterly spectacular” continuum.  Except where there are buffets, dining is family style and there is no ordering off a menu.  The guides choose a range of dishes ahead of time.  We don’t have any forced or chosen food restrictions (I mean, my god, the husband eats Spam® for crying out loud, and I’m the queen of dairy and carbs), but if you do, the guides will accommodate it by making sure at least a few of the dishes at each meal align with your dietary needs.

Pros & Cons

Except for two cons, below, there was nothing we didn’t like about this trip.  Everything I’ve mentioned so far went into our “plus” column.  One huge pro I haven’t remarked upon yet is ease.  Everything about this trip was just so damn easy!  Need a bike?  *Poof* A bike appears.  Problem with your bike? *Poof* A new bike appears.  There’s no arranging transportation, making reservations, or getting lost.  There’s no standing in line, keeping track of tickets, or agonizing over tipping culture.  We even got to skip the customs line in Cambodia, something I didn’t think was even possible.

Yeah, yeah, I know.  All this meant things were a bit insular.  Some of you will find this type of travel too detached, not messy or gritty enough, too orderly and prescribed.  I get it – while nobody wants to lose their tickets or get lost or struggle with the currency or the language or a million other things, those experiences are more “authentic” if you will—less coddled.  And while that type of figure-it-out-as-you-go, do-it-yourself, plan-for-the-best-but-expect-hiccups travel is what we usually embrace, this time we wanted to minimize the stress, especially since the preparations for this trip were herculean compared to others we’ve taken.  Now, for the cons . . .

Con #1:  Too.  Much.  Food.

I’ve been eating food for many years now, and I still haven’t mastered portion control.  It’s particularly difficult when I’m faced with copious quantities of delectable, seemingly once-in-a-lifetime food.  But my personal failings aside, we all bemoaned the fact that, most days of the trip, when we sat down for lunch we were still full from breakfast, and when we sat down for dinner we were still full from lunch.

Laos Luang Prabang bamboo restaurant
The first of many communal meals of gut-busting deliciousness.

For the husband and me, though, this wasn’t just about expanding waistlines and indigestion.  We felt uncomfortably imperialistic getting up after a meal and leaving platters of food unfinished.  And in addition to having that “rich, spoiled Westerner” feel, I plain old don’t like waste.  I was somewhat mollified later in the trip when I learned that the leftover food is given to pigs and other animals, but still, I wish R.E.I. could somehow make lunches optional.

Cambodia Angkor Wat (17)
And snacks!  So many snacks between meals!

Con #2: Not enough free time.

“Eat, eat, eat.  Go, go, go.”  That could be R.E.I’s tagline for this trip.  You certainly get your money’s worth in terms of activities.  When we weren’t engaged in the actual hiking, cycling, or kayaking, we were seeing, visiting, touring, and doing.  We are so grateful we could get ourselves over to Asia a day early so we could have time to explore Luang Prabang at our leisure.  We did not get this in Siem Reap.  In fact, when people ask me what I thought of Siem Reap, I shrug my shoulders.  We had no time to explore.  Each day’s itinerary was full, so full that once or twice the six of us flexed our collective group muscle and demanded a later departure time for the next day’s activities.  In short, the husband and I craved down time.

Travel minibus in Cambodia (2)
Minibus relaxation – get it while you can.

So now that you know what you know, do you think R.E.I.’s Laos-Cambodia Multisport Adventure would be right for you?  Despite its few shortcomings, I highly recommend it.  Just be sure to bring some Tums™ and leave your need for relaxation at home.

Related post: Is a Viking® River Cruise Right for You?

To be taken to R.E.I’s web page on its Asia Multisport trips, click here.  (Note: Twelve hours before this post was due to be published, I gave it one last proofread and double-checked the Laos-Cambodia trip link, only to find that sometime in the last week, the trip was removed from the company’s website.  Whether this is a temporary or permanent deletion remains to be seen.  If you’d like to call R.E.I. and give a lowly customer service agent an earful about how they’ve made me look like a fool for reviewing what is now a nonexistent trip, call 1-800-THANKSREI.  I’m going to go out on a limb, however, and posit that everything I’ve just written is generally applicable to other R.E.I. multisport trips.)

To read my truncated day-by-day itinerary of the R.E.I. trip, read this: And We’re Off…

To read about those whole SE Asia odyssey from the beginning, start here: Things We Learned From the Travel Medicine Doctor: Laos/Cambodia Edition

32 thoughts

  1. Great post! It looks like your accommodations were much nicer than the ones I stayed in during my Intrepid group tour. I agree with you that having some flexibility and down time is the major benefit of self-planned travel. Although we were lucky to have a good group dynamic on the Intrepid tour, I think I will probably stick with more self-planning or just day tours in the future as well.

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    1. Did Intrepid build in much down time, or was your experience similar to ours in that regard? I suppose the companies think that they’ll get an earful if they charge us that much for the trip but then don’t cram in the experiences (and food).


      1. We did have several free days built into our itinerary. I appreciated this as it allowed us to plan a few of our own independent activities, while a couple of my groupmates viewed it as a negative. It’s impossible to please everyone!

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  2. Nice post! I agree for a trip with activities like biking, kayaking, etc. going through a tour company makes everything much easier logistically and even more so if it’s in a country you’ve never been to. I would consider going through REI for a trip like this.

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  3. What a beautiful collection of amazing travel photographs! We haven’t traveled outside of Ireland for nearly a year and I can’t believe I actually (barely) survived! I usually love to organise my own travel itinerary and the only time we went on a group holiday was to Canada, many years ago. At the time, we were both busy with work and decided to let travel company do the heavy lifting. I enjoyed meeting other travellers and making friends and overall it was a great travel experience. Thanks for sharing and have a good day 😀 Aiva

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  4. The places you stayed in look fabulous! But this sort of holiday is not for me. Too busy. Too full. I’ve only been on an organised holiday once – with my mum. We ‘did’ Rome, Florence and Venice in a week, and I felt like I needed a holiday afterwards!

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    1. I’ve been in that situation – too much stuff in too little time. You’re right – it’s exhausting. I also find that in thinking about the trip after the fact, everything kind of blurs together.


  5. First off, “hoity toity” in Khmer is “pheap chrabaukachrabl.” You’re welcome.

    Second, I think I’d be down for this kind of trip! I don’t mind a guided experience, especially in such a foreign part of the world. It sounds like you were well taken care of everywhere. I’m with you on the food, though. Was physically skipping lunch an option?

    Also, what’s with that snide Spam® remark?! 😛

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    1. I never let a Spam-bashing opportunity slip by.

      It was often hard to skip lunch because we were usually all out at a restaurant somewhere, sometimes in remote-ish locations where it would be difficult to find something to do to keep occupied. Additionally, the food was always preordered for six people, so skipping would have meant even more waste.


  6. Thanks for taking me back here! It was a good trip. Though we had and annoying woman who wouldn’t shut up and another who thought the guide was there for just her! There is usually one or two people who bug me. Being an introvert as well, I have learned to use headphones to drown the constant chatty Kathy’s. I also don’t stay up much past dinner. My room is my haven!

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      1. Oh wow – so very similar to our group size. There’s always an annoying person or two in any group, huh? We had ours. My guess is that in a larger group there are more of them, but in a small group there are fewer opportunities to avoid them. 🙂

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  7. Great review of your trip. Your hotels look lovely and modern and unique. I’d like to go to Laos and Cambodia, but the whole tour group vibe is difficult for me to get into. I might do this tour if I didn’t have to do the multi-sports part, though. 😉

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  8. Incredible shots. This place looks like paradise, although the cobra’s freaked me out a little! I could just gaze out to that view all holiday, and is something I need pretty badly right now. Thank you for the post and the information with it.

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      1. I am happy for you too! I hope to see more of Asia after all this. But for now we have to enjoy our home areas as much as we can, there are some good photo opportunities out there in this new normal!

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  9. I am learning SO MUCH from you!! With all of the travel planning that I have done in my life, I am embarrassed to say that I didn’t even realize that REI organized trips. I should have, but didn’t. And they have some incredible itineraries!!! Once again, THANK YOU for sharing your incredible adventures and travel stories with us and for all the wisdom you have passed along! I am SO grateful I found your blog!! 😄

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  10. I love cycling trips, and I had the privilege of joining on in Myanmar. They used mountain bikes on the road too, which I found rather handy, because they tours often veer into trails more often than not. Looks like you had an amazing time, and ten days is such an amazing duration to spend touring!

    As an introvert, I actually enjoy group travels sometimes, because I don’t need to sort out all the logistics and it feels more ‘secure’ to travel in a group rather than constantly having the feeling of needing to take care of myself in case of anything.

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    1. After that trip to Laos/Cambodia I thought I might be ready to tackle visiting Japan on my own, but given the language barrier, I’m thinking of splitting the difference: maybe start out in a group situation and then when that ends, do some exploring on our own. Not that we have a trip planned, but it’s going to happen one of these years.


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